Am I ? Do they ?

.. J suggested today that because these days, I am so much less defended, things like the computer room (almost) fire and the dentist, affect me much more than they would have when I was superficial ..

.. not sure I can completely go here and I do hear ..


.. oh yeah .. and she said I am individuating, it is happening ..

in·di·vid·u·a·tion

The act or process of individuating, especially the process by which social individuals become differentiated one from the other

The condition of being individuated; individuality

Philosophy
a) The development of the individual from the general or universal
b) The distinction or determination of the individual within the general or universal

Jungian psychology
The gradual integration and unification of the self through the resolution of successive layers of psychological conflict